Freedom.

Every day, we have the freedom to explore, to begin anew, to generate meaning in our lives, value in our work, and value in our world.   Freedom to identify the choices we do have, and to live our lives from here….

What helps us remember our freedoms, both inner and outer?

After listening to President Obama on Inauguration day, I am conscious once again of freedom’s cellular role in shaping our country, and our culture.  Yet how often to we fully tap the healthy power that this represents in our daily lives?    The overarching and precious constructs of freedom woven through our Constitution into our political systems and society are worth giving thanks for every day.  Lets not take these for granted, for gratitude is a powerful practice in staying connected with our inner freedoms as well.

Freedom of choice.  This is the core construct.  When we shift our perspective around to the realm of choice, spaciousness opens.  We have room to breathe.  More is possible.  The smaller or more constrained we feel, the more important this perspective becomes. 

 Experiment:  your breath is a great barometer. 

• Notice when you are breathing fully, in an open and relaxed fashion.  

• What mindset are you in?   Chances are you are living in choice and freedom.

• Notice when your breath is tight and constricted, moving only high up in your chest.  

• What is your story in these moments about what is happening?  

Clues that we may have lost touch with freedom:

•  Problem vs. possibility focus

•   Focusing on what we can’t control vs. what we can control

•   In the interpersonal realm, I get focused Over There on someone else’s choices or behavior or communications, instead of focusing Over Here, on my side of the game board of life, on my own choices, behavior, and communications.

Here are questions to help open up your thinking in those tighter moments:

• What choices do I have?

• What freedoms do I have that I can access?

• Where have I made assumptions, or walled of possibilities?

• What am I learning?

• What is possible?

At any given moment, your breath can be an ally.  When its happy, likely your focus is healthy and generative as well.   When you breathing is narrowed, likely your thinking is as well.

 To intervene on your own behalf, you can access this mind/body connection from either end.  By deepening your breathing, you’ll have access to more expansive thinking, and by opening your thinking, you can generate more expansive breathing.  Which access point do you want to take?

You have the freedom to choose!